Draygoes
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First of all, I will not give out the persons name. I do not want to see anything against said person, and yes, this is a small rant of sorts...
Said person will in this case be refered to as Bob, because that is the first name that came up in my head that didnt have any connection to the actual person.
I started talking to someone at the store, while waiting for Cynthia and family to finish shopping (I prefer to just sit while they do it. I dont like to shop unless I have to.), and I starting thinking that this was a good guy. Then the following conversation takes place, changing my mind.
It started out simply enough. He was talking about how many fights he had been in, and point blank bragging about it.
After a while, I was not willing to just listen to false bragging, so I asked him why he fights so much. His answer was "Because it is fun!". (I have never been in an actual fight that I would call fun, for obvious reasons.)
I asked him what was so fun about it. His responce "Its great to be able to break someones arm using a block" While I know for a fact that what he said is impossible, I just counted him as a blow hard and stopped there.
At this point, after he went on and on about the people he "Put in the hospital", someone that I know (Not using names) informed him that I am a first degree black belt in jiu-jitsu. My thoughts equaled to that of a sailor at that point.
(Telling a blow hard what type of self-defence skills I have gathered throught my lifetime has led to many fights that I wanted no part of.)
He goes on to ask, "How many people have you killed?" Someone needs to stop watching movies as far as I am concerned, but I answered NONE because that is not the point of self defence.
Then he states "Then you are not a real ninja." At this point, not only am I done, but I am ready to leave the conversation, because this guy knows nothing about proper fighting.
He asked me how many people whom I have been in a fight with where I "Won". I walked away at that point, and refused any other questions.
Winning to me means getting away without the use of violence. That means that if I can run from or talk my way out of a fight, I call that winning. No matter the end result, if you had to use violence to resolve an issue, nobody wins. I hate it when people are like that. I understand if you have no choise but to defend yourself, but getting out of it without being harmed is a personal victory, not a win.
I count it as a win when I face off against and defeat someone else of equal level in a sparing match. That requires thought, strategy, and nobody gets hurt.
Thank you very much for allowing yet another vent. Please feel free to contribute your own points in this, if you wish.
Said person will in this case be refered to as Bob, because that is the first name that came up in my head that didnt have any connection to the actual person.
I started talking to someone at the store, while waiting for Cynthia and family to finish shopping (I prefer to just sit while they do it. I dont like to shop unless I have to.), and I starting thinking that this was a good guy. Then the following conversation takes place, changing my mind.
It started out simply enough. He was talking about how many fights he had been in, and point blank bragging about it.
After a while, I was not willing to just listen to false bragging, so I asked him why he fights so much. His answer was "Because it is fun!". (I have never been in an actual fight that I would call fun, for obvious reasons.)
I asked him what was so fun about it. His responce "Its great to be able to break someones arm using a block" While I know for a fact that what he said is impossible, I just counted him as a blow hard and stopped there.
At this point, after he went on and on about the people he "Put in the hospital", someone that I know (Not using names) informed him that I am a first degree black belt in jiu-jitsu. My thoughts equaled to that of a sailor at that point.
(Telling a blow hard what type of self-defence skills I have gathered throught my lifetime has led to many fights that I wanted no part of.)
He goes on to ask, "How many people have you killed?" Someone needs to stop watching movies as far as I am concerned, but I answered NONE because that is not the point of self defence.
Then he states "Then you are not a real ninja." At this point, not only am I done, but I am ready to leave the conversation, because this guy knows nothing about proper fighting.
He asked me how many people whom I have been in a fight with where I "Won". I walked away at that point, and refused any other questions.
Winning to me means getting away without the use of violence. That means that if I can run from or talk my way out of a fight, I call that winning. No matter the end result, if you had to use violence to resolve an issue, nobody wins. I hate it when people are like that. I understand if you have no choise but to defend yourself, but getting out of it without being harmed is a personal victory, not a win.
I count it as a win when I face off against and defeat someone else of equal level in a sparing match. That requires thought, strategy, and nobody gets hurt.
Thank you very much for allowing yet another vent. Please feel free to contribute your own points in this, if you wish.