Originally Posted by Cabbs
She probably wouldn't let him spend money unless it was on her jewelry
You're on the right track but wrong goodies. First one wanted a house, new car, and mindless dribble, but no jewery. She spent a lot of my money on her braindead family.
Second one was a lush. Two teenaged good for nothing kids. Cost me a fortune to keep all that going.
In both cases the sex was good but everything else just sucked wind. First one lasted 8 years while the second one made it to 2. I'd get hooked up again if I happened to run in to the right person and the right situation. But I'm in no hurry.
It's not just any guy that would take on a ready made family. The thing about raising some one elses kids is some thing that sticks in the back of a guy's head even if he says it's ok. I'd not mind that at my age but younger guys seem to have a problem with it.
Now let me counterdict that statement. You will find that one guy that thinks kids are cool no matter if they are his are some one elses. Not a perv but a guy that is open minded and caring. The one that knows if he gets involved with you, he gets involved with the kids. You're not a packaged deal. You're a family. There's a difference. He's out there some where, Hun. Just keep looking.