When I look for a girl........
She can't smoke. It's disgusting, a sign of weakness that stinks. Theres no reason for it. It pisses me right off, that doesn't just go for a girlfriend though, it's for everyone.
I don't mind her being no super model, but being overweight is a no no. I used to be an overweight & fat, and seriously got me down so I did something about it. I was lazy, felt sorry for myself and had no self esteam. All it took was a proper diet, a decent amount of physical work and dada! you feel a thousand times better and I've had countless girlfriends since. Obisity can be an illness, but it can always be cured and in most cases is a complete lack of self respect, same as in my own case. The least they can do is have a bit of respect for themselves. Again, this goes for everyone, and not just for potential girlfriends. At 15, I was 15 stone, had more chins than there is in China and only 5'6". Now I'm 20 in January, 13.5 stone and 5'11" with next to no fat, mostly muscle.
Other than that, she has to be loyal. What I mean by that is not worship me in anyway or form but simply don't cheat. They have a problem with me, tell me, you want to split up, then I will, but no cheating, been there - not nice.
Personality wise, she can't be a slapper. Not to easy to get into, someone worth the while. Has to be able to have a laugh but also quite open. Able to be serious and probably a bit more grown up than me to keep me on the straight and norrow.
Everything else, I don't care.
Explicit word edited out; "fat f****r", an apology would be good.
It's good to hear that you did something about it though! Most people don't.
