Most of us here aren't much more than kids; even you yourself aren't a great deal more than a kid or indeed a great deal older than whatever Yellowsnowman may be. I cannot list how many people in here are adults but the list is few, and of those fewer post regularly.
I thought we were here to discuss the choices Homosexuals make; not the Wisdom of somebody who makes a Snowman and Pees on it. (Hopefully he didn't pee on it - then make the snowman...
I'm sure it is possible to change your sexuality from abuse; if it was sexual abuse and bad enough. Or indeed if you are one of those insecure people who enjoy being a pain in the arse; and do it just for the the shock value.