Originally Posted by Trivium Nate
I guess your right I have to look up the laws for New York state!
im not asking if their is an age limit on kissing
i was aksing if their is an age limit for relationships
like i said im 19 and she is 14
I wanted to ask her to be my girlfriend,but was just thinking that the law might disagree with my decision
This is as far as I read. I wanted to let you know not to do anything. I know you like this girl, but she is too young and doesn't know what is going on. If you really like this girl and if she really likes you she can at least wait till she's 17 (you'll be 22). 19 to 14 is NOT GOOD!!
In USA, under 18 it must be within 2-3 years of each others age (or something like that) WITH parental consent. if you are 19 she can be no younger than 16-17. Once she hits 17 (and she'll know what is going on a little better than) than it would be cool. You wanna do it and not get in trouble, go to Alaska. Legal age of consent is 14.
Personally dude, I'm 22 and I have learned this, girls MY age don't know what they want and are immature (but I am quite mature for my age to begin with) and aren't worth the time. You should look for an older woman. Best part about that is, she could prolly teach you something that'll make your toes curl. *~Wink, wink, nudge, nudge!~*
Originally Posted by The Sheep
I may be being naive but, what the heck is wrong with him taking a girl out?
No sex involved?
Going back a bit.. my parents would rather meet the person, than chat on msm.
You cant really be saying you cant take a girl on a date if she is underage? How on Earth do you people meet each other!
Um, I have never had a problem meeting people to go out with that aren't 5 grades behind me. you may be able to pull that off down south (with all the rednecks), but up here, it don't fly well.
I have had many GF's that I have met in many different places. I met 3 at jobs I had (not the best idea), one while I was working at Pep Boys, 1 at a pool hall, 1 at the beach and the last one, the BEST one, I met thru my friends and thank god for them. As much of assholes as they can be sometimes, if it wasn't for my friends GF's, my GF wouldn't have gotten to know me and done so cause I am 4 years younger than her.
She got to know me as a person and saw that dispite my "lack of age", I am still a great guy and can put a smile on her face (even tho most of it is me making an ass out of myself to make her smile). It's much more worth the time and effort and "growing up" to get an older woman who knows what she wants and isn't gonna play games with your heart. Just my .02¢.