Originally Posted by athlon64fx
still 18 is waaaaaayyyyyyyy to young to be proud of someone for having a baby! maybye at 30 but not 18. 18 is too young and also did you know the womb isnt developed all teh way untill 25?
but people have them all teh time though. its nothing new to me I've been around babies for 15 years of my childhood. and I got tired of them really quick. trust me they arent all that glamourus. why people cant wait to ahve them and loose thier valuable youth over them I dunno!
and its not just 18 years of the child life its all of it! your whole life gets thrown away.
and also with the condtions mentioned above that she has she shouldnt be ahving kids with hypertention! that will often time lead to impetience and violonce.
would you congratulate a 15 year old for having a baby? sure not! too young!!!
and if it was my daughter it would be aborted lickety split!
just keep that in mind when a young person thats too young to have a baby isnt a good thing but you congratulate her anywaz and make her feel it isnt wrong to have a baby at such a young age!
why dont people enjoy their youth instead of becomeing mothers as soon as they are teens and dotn enjoy being young, and enjoy life without being tied down to child.
if they are having ti just becuase birnty spears has one they are out of their midn sicne celebs have nannies to take care of teh kids, the person doesnt!
That is quite possibly the stupidest post I have ever read.
You're what, 15, think you know everything. Well kid there's a lot more to life. Having a kid is one of the greatest experiences a human being can have. The fact that you created something, then see it grow, then experience things with the person, and teach them, is a life long task, but very enjoyable.
And when you're eighteen that is a perfectly fine age to have a kid, a lot of people, including my mother, had me when she was just 18. Age isn't the factor when it comes to having kids. In Biblical times peopel were married and having children at the age of 14! It's just what culture you live in that essentially justifies when you can or when you can not have a child.
As for being an Uncle, it doesn't mean you're a babysitter. it means you're a part of that childs life, part of that child's family. So if the parents need a little relaxation from the kid, then FAMILY is where they will most often turn to, and typically it's to an Aunt or Uncle. This doesn't mean, "Oh great now I have to watch the little brat. Boo Hoo..." It means that you can be apart of somethign great. Wether that includes just watchign a kid for a few hours or going out with the parents and the child to do something. It's all worthwhile and enjoyable.
And you even controdict yourself by saying, "18 is to young to have a child." Yet you're 15 and out having sex. You can't preach to not do something when you yourself are commiting the very act that creates a child. Goes to show what youth these days think...
Anywho back onto topic.
Congrats on being a new Uncle root. I hope you and your sister and your brother-in-law get to have great experiences over the next several years with the new kid. It's fun being a part of somethign good. So I just hope that you'll enjoy the youngster and help it out when the time comes.