Also - i completely forgot about the post to come back and add to it...but thanks for your thoughts, i'm not sure i have time to do all the second life stuff tbh, it's enough with forums/emails etc than living life online too!
I had another look at the site today and it is some new people today who have been married on second life for a few years, and are all set to marry in real life! THey haven't even met! Crikey! http://www.itv.com/page.asp?partid=7842