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Old 12-17-2006, 03:55 PM   #21
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wow thats so retarded, what if a girl took advantage of a guy, not saying that wud be bad lol , but seriously, its legal impossible for a woman to rape a man, thats sexist
Theirs a few charges of girls raping guys.

To understand why their is not alot of female on male rape, we first need to understand rape. It mainly falls into these two category's

The first category is rape for pleasure, which is to achieve an orgasm. This is generally male on female. We do not see alot of this, because if females want pleasure, theirs always a fair number of willing guys. Victims of this would generally be adults.

The second category is rape that deals with domination, which is not done to achieve an orgasm. This is all about power and control. This kind of rape is in a lot of cases male on male, even though their would still be a high number of male on female cases. This kind of rape would be commonly seen in prisons, and the cases of priests raping young boys.

Now, for the first category, theirs enough willing males that females are unlikely to do this. For the second category, females just typically are not physical control freaks unlike guys.
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Old 12-18-2006, 10:51 AM   #22
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Why do guys always go for the younger girl? Haha, I'm the same. I couldn't bring myself to thinking of going out with a girl older than me. Or taller for that matter... and I doubt I'm very different to everyone else in this thought.
I also have a tendancy to not like girls when their hairs up, and not down. Weird I know, but my mates the same.

Good luck though man. If you want things to work, they can
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Old 12-18-2006, 01:00 PM   #23
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I believe someone else posted a thread simillar to this a few weeks ago...


basically... if you're technically an adult, and she's a few years younger than you and still a minor, then just leave her alone...

if you really really do fancy each other that much then you could just be friends and wait the two years it takes her to reach age of concent, (16).

by which time you'll be 19 going on 20, probably gone to college and found a girl your opwn age anyway...



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Theirs a few charges of girls raping guys.

To understand why their is not alot of female on male rape, we first need to understand rape. It mainly falls into these two category's

The first category is rape for pleasure, which is to achieve an orgasm. This is generally male on female. We do not see alot of this, because if females want pleasure, theirs always a fair number of willing guys. Victims of this would generally be adults.

The second category is rape that deals with domination, which is not done to achieve an orgasm. This is all about power and control. This kind of rape is in a lot of cases male on male, even though their would still be a high number of male on female cases. This kind of rape would be commonly seen in prisons, and the cases of priests raping young boys.

Now, for the first category, theirs enough willing males that females are unlikely to do this. For the second category, females just typically are not physical control freaks unlike guys.
no im saying, in the US, it is legally impossible for a woman to rape a man, if she forces herself onto him(which lol like i said wouldnt be a big deal typically) but if he was really unwilling, the legal definition of rape in the US is the forcible insertion of a males reproductive organ into a female
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Why do guys always go for the younger girl? Haha, I'm the same. I couldn't bring myself to thinking of going out with a girl older than me. Or taller for that matter... and I doubt I'm very different to everyone else in this thought.
I also have a tendancy to not like girls when their hairs up, and not down. Weird I know, but my mates the same.

Good luck though man. If you want things to work, they can
Girls are more mentally mature and thats why guys constantly go for younger girls.

However this is a general rule of thumb, it can easily be broken. American society also pressures us to not have any major age difference gaps.
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You might want to slow down.

You are young, and its the heart's desire to fall in love. However, being at the age of 17. You might very well be in love, however, don't base your emotions on that yet. You hardly know the girl. First impressions can give you a bit of a skew of things. You said you've talked a lot on the phone, what about in person? do you act differently? is she looking in your eyes? is she interested? Take things really slow. REALLY SLOW. you said you go to church, I'm guessing your a christian, I am too, so pray about it, and see what God wants.

You are too young to be thinking about marriage, and you haven't even scratched the surfice of who that person really is. I met my fiance 2 years ago. We were best friends, for about 1 1/2 years, until we decided to start dating, a soon afterward i asked her to marry me ,I'm 21 btw. We've only been dating for like 8 months, and we are getting married in 5 months. I say that to say, I am still getting to know her, we still find out new things about each other, and we talk everyday on the phone, and email each other whatever it may be. We talk a lot, and still we are finding out new things about each other.

I say that to say, 2 months isn't nearly enough time, to fall in love, and to say that you know that person. Give it time, you are still young.
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WTF , that shit is so random !
this tread is 2 years old , now some guy puts porn links in it .

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by the sounds of all this id leave her for abit, it sounds to me she is doing your pocket in with the phone bill n that.

man just go with the flow and take it easy.
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if it happens it happens. if it doesnt then theres plenty more out there.
just dont rush anything and basically see what happens. thats all you can do
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