BamaFan29891
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hey guys.
so i am 17 years old. i know... a young lost high school senior lol.
i have a few questions about relationships.
so i met a girl, she is 14, it's like a 3 year age difference, which i dont consider too bad.
she is cute, pretty, and i like to be around her. we talk on the phone for probably 4 hours/day on average. and we text each other during school. we go to the same school, and we have had a relationship for about a month and a half now.
we basically talk to each other at all times possible, seriously. like all day lol. so sometimes it gets awkward and uncomfortable because we dont have much to say to each other, but we still like being on the phone even if it's silent or being near each other.
her parents are a lot more strict than mine, so we cant do anything together really. i see her at church on sunday and wednesday nights but we get to see each other everyday at school and stuff, except saturdays really.
like when we first started talking, i was amazed by her. like we argue sometimes, about me being stupid, cause i struggle with jealousy issues and what not, but we always make up and like each other so much more after.
after like 3 weeks, i told her "i love you." and then i told her that maybe we should starting saying "i care about you." or something along those lines. but like one day i couldnt talk to her, i went crazy. like i cant stand the thought of not being able to talk to her for more than 6 hours again.
her mom took up her phone one night, because her parents woke up and saw that we were on the phone at 2 am, which didnt make her parents happy. she realized how much she liked me i think, and said "i love you" for the first time. i told her "tell me when you really mean it too." and she said "i meant it just then." and that made me so happy.
i could honestly see myself with her for like years and years, maybe marriage if we stay together you know? but i want to take it step by step, i am jsut scared of losing her and what not.
but recently like... the burning desire i have had for her has slowly diminished, but i know i still love her. i just think we talk so much that we dont have anythign to talk about sometimes, so that worries me.
is this normal? maybe my desire for her is slowly rounding off and smoothing out because i know she loves me too and i know she is mine now? is all of that normal?
and how can i keep conversations and make sure i am interesting and stuff?
any help is appreciated, and i will post more about it in spare time. :]
thanks guys. :] (and gals)
so i am 17 years old. i know... a young lost high school senior lol.
i have a few questions about relationships.
so i met a girl, she is 14, it's like a 3 year age difference, which i dont consider too bad.
she is cute, pretty, and i like to be around her. we talk on the phone for probably 4 hours/day on average. and we text each other during school. we go to the same school, and we have had a relationship for about a month and a half now.
we basically talk to each other at all times possible, seriously. like all day lol. so sometimes it gets awkward and uncomfortable because we dont have much to say to each other, but we still like being on the phone even if it's silent or being near each other.
her parents are a lot more strict than mine, so we cant do anything together really. i see her at church on sunday and wednesday nights but we get to see each other everyday at school and stuff, except saturdays really.
like when we first started talking, i was amazed by her. like we argue sometimes, about me being stupid, cause i struggle with jealousy issues and what not, but we always make up and like each other so much more after.
after like 3 weeks, i told her "i love you." and then i told her that maybe we should starting saying "i care about you." or something along those lines. but like one day i couldnt talk to her, i went crazy. like i cant stand the thought of not being able to talk to her for more than 6 hours again.
her mom took up her phone one night, because her parents woke up and saw that we were on the phone at 2 am, which didnt make her parents happy. she realized how much she liked me i think, and said "i love you" for the first time. i told her "tell me when you really mean it too." and she said "i meant it just then." and that made me so happy.
i could honestly see myself with her for like years and years, maybe marriage if we stay together you know? but i want to take it step by step, i am jsut scared of losing her and what not.
but recently like... the burning desire i have had for her has slowly diminished, but i know i still love her. i just think we talk so much that we dont have anythign to talk about sometimes, so that worries me.
is this normal? maybe my desire for her is slowly rounding off and smoothing out because i know she loves me too and i know she is mine now? is all of that normal?
and how can i keep conversations and make sure i am interesting and stuff?
any help is appreciated, and i will post more about it in spare time. :]
thanks guys. :] (and gals)