Technician1
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SG, your fear is commitment.
I don't have that fear but I don't care for it. I will not give up my freedom for anything and that includes marriage. I can't keep girlfriends because they want commitments.
To hell with that.
When I got married I didn't loose any freedom at all. I just got someone to do those things right along with me.
I do what I want to just like I did when I was single but now there is someone else doing it too.
It might be a perception thing but I don't see any negatives to marriage. It might also be who you choose to be with and whether they want to control you or join you on your journey through life.
My nephew is married to a psychiatrist who is very controlling. I couldn't live with her but he is extremely easy going and seems to be fine with it. They have been together for 11 years since high school and been married for 2 years.