I've been said myself to have therapist type attributes to help people, but I have alot of problems with myself I can't sort out, so it sort of throws the entire idea out of the window, haha.
I like helping other people though. hence why this forum has been a sole part of what I do on the net
Nate will get through this. The truth gets out somehow. I wouldn't be surprised if she already knows how you feel through how you are with her, or her friends have (they tend to realise. I know)