It basically depends on the person, man. I'm the type of guy who takes life easy, converts complication into simplification, has an open foundation in mind, where I take the neutral position.
In other words, I don't give a crap what people say, as long as it doesn't infrige rules from the community. I really wonder what happened to open talking...
And what, she got rep? Well, so be it. I mean, it's special to have a lady in the gang...and since we're boys, we tend to go nuts, and our IQ drops...except a few of us, who greats normally