Just out of interest where are you thinking of taking her , what are you thinking of doing on your date ?
If you want to buy her something than rather than just turning up with something buy her something during the course of the date ,for example a local restauraunt i frequent particularly for dates usually has a rose seller that comes round selling roses so if something like that happens ill usually gauge if thats something the date would aprechiate and buy her one if so , that being said i dont ever recall buying any roses on a first date .
Originally Posted by Jesusfrk611
Definitely wouldn't go to a movie on the first several dates... If you want to get to know her, going into a theater to stare at a screen with the other person right beside you is not getting to know them at all. A movie is for later when you already have a decent relationship with the person and know them well enough.
Usually i wouldnt go to the cinema on a first date however if you plan to go for a drink or meal afterwards then it can give you something to talk about , although again something that really shouldnt be a problem
watching dvd's at home can be more fun anyway because theres no problem with talking through the movie .