Break up?

[Paradox1]

Ugh.. I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost a month now, its just a simple highschool relationship sure, but I don't know if I want to stay in the relationship or not.

She's not really as mature as I wish she was, It's like she thinks its like a 7th year relationship, and thats not how I want it =\ I mean, I do like her a little, but I think I like her more as a friend than anything. But I mean, I never get to see her either, wont be able to see her all summer because of her mother..

Does anyone think theres a way I could maybe ask her to take some time off or something? Cuz I might want to go out with her again, I just dont want to be in a relationship right now =\ Do you think that would work or would it make her mad at me or what? I don't want to ruin our friendship

In other words, How could I break up, but save the friendship, and still leave it open for maybe getting back togeth in the future if we wanted

 

[Blonde]

"I'm really sorry, but I don't want you. I hope we can still be friends."

Or has anyone seen that eppisode of Friends where Ross and Rachel go on a break?
That would be a good idea...

 

[renegadeandy]

As long as you confirm with her there is no-one else, and you just need space and time to get yourself together - you will contact her if and when you are ever ready - she should respect that - if she doesnt then she isnt thinking about you.

 

[Blonde]

So what are you going to do? Break up with her or not?

 

[lhuser]

It all depends on what you feel. If you don't think it is well working because she is not the type of relationship you thought, talk to her.

 

[DJ-CHRIS1]

Just break up kindly and stay friends, it's fairly easy to do this and have the possibility of a relationship in the future.

 

[Nik00117]

If shes not mature enough or the right one then guess what its not for you. SImply break it to her.