didnt you already created a thread that asks what you should get, and we gave you suggestions.
I dont really want to help you, reason is because you said you are using your parents money, even if thats none of my business, i would be holding back and wouldnt go all out. Sorry.
Get an AW case. And download alienGUIse here. There you go! No one will know. As long as you aren't stupid enough to leave the theme manager link on the desktop.