To answer your edit, I do not have a front panel controller for the fan speed. It is simply an on/off switch for the LEDs on the fans.
For the rest of your reply, it didn't really address the issue of having one of those 4-pin molex connectors run into the tiny little 2-pin thing that runs to the front panel for the on/off switch. The problem is that one cable needs to power it, and the other needs to connect to a male 2-pin end. All of the adapters I find have male ends, and what I need is a female.
Do they make this?
Does my logic even make sense?