Re: need the right tuner card and dont know what to get.....
You won't be able to find one with a coax out. I suggest enabling your mobo's IGP and using it to interface with the TV. DVI-HDMI cables are cheap as dirt on amazon. Alternatively, you could throw in some old POS card and use it.
Are you looking to record high definition TV? If so, you will want a QAM tuner. If SD is fine, go with a regular analog one. Make sure you get one with a PCI express x1 interface. USB may seem convenient, but it lacks the bandwidth throughput to get decent picture. PCI will just look like hell.I recommend Hauppage tuners. I've had two of them and they seem to have better picture than any others I've used.
What OS are you running? Hopefully Windows 7 or XP because Vista HATES multiple video cards. If it's vista, we will have to look into alternative options.
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