Re: iPAD help
Yep, the iPad/iPod (really have no idea which you are talking about. iPad nano?) does not support MTP or standard file transfers. You will have to use iTunes or jailbreak and use SSH/iPhonebrowser (assuming you mean iPad)
I've also noticed that the complete filesystem is visible in certain distributions of linux. This is also an option if you are seriously opposed to iTunes.
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