When did he tell you he might not come back? It was not my intent to drive him off but to let him know he was not going to get away with his behaviour any more. But if he doesn't come back that is his desistion.
I guess all the members have figured out by now I enforce the rules equally on them. It's unfair to let one member repetedly get away with that sort of behaviour and be so heavy handed with every one else. This has been the reason I have been laying low for a few days. Just popping up now and then to make a comment or two. I had just had enough of his getting away with it. I made my case as you (alvino) saw in our private area. Then gave it some thought and took what I deemed the right course of action. And just to let our membership know if any of you act anything like he did you too will be shown the door for a couple of days.
As for those who think he will be picking on you, if and when he comes back, Don't rise to his bait and just pm a mod. Let us handle it. I was married to a gal that was not happy unless she could make you lose your cool. So trust me I have plenty of experiance with those kinds of people.
You know he's gonna read these posts and get all kinds of bent out of shape.