Ive taken one more step to my problem!!
There are upwards of 100 connections in my netstat -n all on ports I dont recognize as normal ports for my programs, and all with diferent IPs some starting with the same a class number.
I went to my command prompt incidently to get the ip of this guy that I was wanting to.. *cough* attack and i noticed all the connections.
I countd by 5s, and got to 100, gave up counting, and there was still another page left with the cmd window maximized.
Ok now what I want to know.... How do I disable these ports? I mean the obvious way to disconnect them is unplug the modem. lol but If i block connections on the port range theyve chosen then that in theory should stop the attack long enough for me to do some clean up
Im a bit mad at myself for not knowing how to close ports ^^; how noob is that haha