Um, first off, you two (cobra and technoman), don't comment on this unless you know what you are talking about.
Of course there is a way of cracking AOL. There is a way of doing everything. But cracking for such a personal reason (and I can obviously tell that you are not a cracker nor a hacker), is just not right. You should go straight to her face, and break up. If you feel she is cheating on you, computers are not the way to solve problems.
Cracking AOL is considered EXTREMELY lame in the underground computer world. I would reccomend that you stay away from the idea that: "oooo hackers, they can hax0r AIm and mail accounts and its probly hella easy". No... that's so far from the truth, it's not even funny. First off, that's cracking, not hacking. Second off, even most crackers don't do something lame like that.
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