lol, i dont think this is very good to help, and im sorry if anyone gets mad at me, but fiance issues? I feel its ok i guess. If yall are using the same computer put monitering software on there, find out her password. Then enter! other wize(not using same computer or can install it) dont worry about it itll be to hard. Again I dont aprove of it, and im not resposibale for ur actions.