ye me to detox, but the others like your bank problems I don't have.. I had a family.. a son of 18months now and the sons mother my ex.. we split up , she blames it all on me, all I can say is I did try.. anything he needed I'd go get it.. I was their changing him.. bathing him.. you know but I guess I did things wrong sometimes and she hated it, but I told her this was all new to me.. and It's hard for me too.. she's go mad because I had 15min naps while i was thier.. I had worked all week come to see my son.. after had seeing him all day I had a 15min nap.. things like this she got mad.. I really was stressed, down and thought well I loved her and my son.. we got in a massive arguement, she didn't want me round.. I only get to see my son 6hours once a week.. it got me so depressed for ages, then I thought well.. what can I do? heres my answer... be around your friends.. being around friends takes your mind of it all and looses you up.. then you get a habbit of seeing friends.. life becomes better, I can now say I'm over her and happy enough now I have no shit to deal with with her.. altho I'd love to go back but tbh I'm happy with my friends knowing things are good, I'd do anything to be with my son everyday still but she won't let that happen.. I don't want her back, she knows that and that's why she only lets me see my son once a week, she can't handle it now that I don't give a f**k bout her..
be round your friends