dude_56013
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I know what you mean... Always try and be the best at everything, makes yourself feel good. But what the goal really is... being affirmed. If you win something great, but no one cares, then you don't feel great. But if you do good on a test, and the kid next to you says, "congrats" you feel more accomplished. Or if someone you care about comes up and tells you how great a friend you are too them, you feel MUCH more accomplished. At least I think so.
+108410498 to you superman. You summed it up very well.
For instance, I feel really good when someone compliments me on how well of a business man I am for being 18 and how great of work I do. However, yesterday, I felt absolutely belittled by a customer who was very rude because he thought that I was the one who was not doing something correct and he was almost demanding his money back. I showed him up by working 8 hours on the damn thing and fixing the "problem" (guys who read the thread, this was about the wireless printer), even though it was a Vista set back, NOT a problem on my end. He didn't say a damn thing when he came and got it today, and that made me feel like the better person and better inside.