you got to learn a few things man, your not her boyfriend, your her friend, if she loved you she would move, if she said to you I want to move with you, man she f**in loves you, so what if she has had other guys while your away, come on man get a grip, you can't expect a girl to stay single and not have sex until she gets to you, pffft yer right, they just wanna have fun man from time to time, let her do what she wants, your not her boyfriend so chill, seriously, you need to think about it, I mean if their was you and a girl now alone, and she was so fine, you just couldn't resist spanking her, I'm sure you'd have sex with her, , i know I'd jump on her.