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you think that someone cares about you only to be proven wrong time after time again?
Here's the scenario: back in 2005 I lived in a suburb of Denver, CO. I had a girlfriend and things were going well. We had a family crisis involving my grandparents' health, so in the summer of 2006 I moved to Florida. It was hard to leave her but it was necessary as she was unable to move with me and I was unable to stay. So we ended up splitting up but staying in contact. Right after I moved, we were contacting each other and things got ugly. But we mended our situation and have since become close friends.
So since things were going well, she missed me terribly, so we were discussing plans for her to move out to Florida with me. So, discussions were in progress, we made this elaborate plan on moving her down here, but it would have to wait until 2009 for family reasons. Now I was ok with this, gives me something to look forward to. But ever since I have been gone, she always has juggled boyfriends like bouncy balls. She said herself, she couldn't stand to be alone. Just the past few months, though, she had stayed single and things were better than ever. But just today, she got back with an ex-boyfriend and I found that to be the last straw. I am seriously considering breaking off communication with her and her plans to move are on hold, if not indefinitely cancelled.
I guess besides venting, my question is that am I really being unreasonable with the fact that I do not like the idea of her seeing other guys when she says she loves me with all her heart and plans to move out here? I almost consider it a form of cheating. If you were in this scenario, what would you do?
/rant
Here's the scenario: back in 2005 I lived in a suburb of Denver, CO. I had a girlfriend and things were going well. We had a family crisis involving my grandparents' health, so in the summer of 2006 I moved to Florida. It was hard to leave her but it was necessary as she was unable to move with me and I was unable to stay. So we ended up splitting up but staying in contact. Right after I moved, we were contacting each other and things got ugly. But we mended our situation and have since become close friends.
So since things were going well, she missed me terribly, so we were discussing plans for her to move out to Florida with me. So, discussions were in progress, we made this elaborate plan on moving her down here, but it would have to wait until 2009 for family reasons. Now I was ok with this, gives me something to look forward to. But ever since I have been gone, she always has juggled boyfriends like bouncy balls. She said herself, she couldn't stand to be alone. Just the past few months, though, she had stayed single and things were better than ever. But just today, she got back with an ex-boyfriend and I found that to be the last straw. I am seriously considering breaking off communication with her and her plans to move are on hold, if not indefinitely cancelled.
I guess besides venting, my question is that am I really being unreasonable with the fact that I do not like the idea of her seeing other guys when she says she loves me with all her heart and plans to move out here? I almost consider it a form of cheating. If you were in this scenario, what would you do?
/rant