yeah, it sucks, gotta update something once a year, and i have trying to do that. I probably spent about $2000 on computer parts in 2 years, and yet, i paid about $600-$700 my parts (including monitor).
But i am getting into the habit of just enjoying what i got, and dont have to compare/beat my friends computers.
Its actually nice having a couple of hundreds around, and being able to spend it on food.