No no, you've got it all wrong, after my relative had unpacked, we sat chatting & he said that his dad, my cousin, had told of my interest in computers, so Simon told me of a website that shows events in history etc, I said that I belonged to a forum, so I booted up & that's how it begun, I uploaded the site & started the thread, why do you query what I do in my own home?, CF isn't the Freemasons after all, you might not have intended to offend me, but you have, I'm surprised at you, this is a member of my family you're going on about!, & I won't be showing him this when he gets back, I haven't seen him since he was 12, & I don't want to spoil his very welcome visit, he's going on a world cruise next month, his work schedule is very tight, he hasn't had a break for eighteen months, & I don't expect to see him again, but never mnd, the few days he is here, I will cherish!