Kage
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Yeah, if you turn 18 and she is under 16, and of course she will be, it can be considered weird, but I think of it like this.
Age is just a number.
People grow up faster these days and develop much faster, so I don't know. Its just not as it used to be.
I wouldn't feel right going out with someone under 16 now, though I am 19, so yeah...
That said, I would go out with someone whos 16 probably, maybe turning 17 soonish (especially if I knew them before I was 18 and known her a long time, etc).
Truthfully, they are only just getting older like you are. As soon as its 17-18, age matters alot less, and then as you both go past that, it doesn't really matter at all about gap, so I dno't know why it is so hit and miss in the earlier years with this matter.
I'm glad you have someone that you care for If you keep it innocent, and all that, I don't see a problem. The fact that you knew her like this before you turned 18 shouldn't matter! Like I said, age matters alot less now, and yeah, it definietly doesn't matter as much because you knew her already at that age.
Its true though that you will talk less,. but thats only because you know about her now, and don't need to learn as much deeply etc. That doesn't mean you won't be close. Rather the opposite actually.
If theres a connection, theres a connection.
I have a special connection with 2 girls. Both living too far away to even start anything, which always seems to happen to me . One 16 (I've known her about 5-6 years now and have always been close) and one 18.
I see the one thats 18 alot more though, and so, we do have times where we have nothing much to say, but its still nice to be around her.
Same would go for you.
I don't like the phone that much though, so could never be on there as much as you
Age is just a number.
People grow up faster these days and develop much faster, so I don't know. Its just not as it used to be.
I wouldn't feel right going out with someone under 16 now, though I am 19, so yeah...
That said, I would go out with someone whos 16 probably, maybe turning 17 soonish (especially if I knew them before I was 18 and known her a long time, etc).
Truthfully, they are only just getting older like you are. As soon as its 17-18, age matters alot less, and then as you both go past that, it doesn't really matter at all about gap, so I dno't know why it is so hit and miss in the earlier years with this matter.
I'm glad you have someone that you care for If you keep it innocent, and all that, I don't see a problem. The fact that you knew her like this before you turned 18 shouldn't matter! Like I said, age matters alot less now, and yeah, it definietly doesn't matter as much because you knew her already at that age.
Its true though that you will talk less,. but thats only because you know about her now, and don't need to learn as much deeply etc. That doesn't mean you won't be close. Rather the opposite actually.
If theres a connection, theres a connection.
I have a special connection with 2 girls. Both living too far away to even start anything, which always seems to happen to me . One 16 (I've known her about 5-6 years now and have always been close) and one 18.
I see the one thats 18 alot more though, and so, we do have times where we have nothing much to say, but its still nice to be around her.
Same would go for you.
I don't like the phone that much though, so could never be on there as much as you