ArrizX said:Im not taking sides here, but I beleive you are considered "gay" or "straight" at birth.
Im not sure how or why, but I recall hearing that somewhere...
DJ-CHRIS said:Could you care to explain how the fuck something like this works?
If you could explain to me why the hell I would choose to be gay and go thru years of my life in depression, drinking, suicidal thoughts and drugs, feel free to explain this to me.
Toby said:And he didn't use to be gay. Only one day he realised that he liked guys...
Denier-of-Soup said:That's impossible. Once a someone finishes puberty, their sexual orientation is set for life.
Either you've got the details wrong, or your friend was a repressed homosexual/bisexual.
Toby said:That's because it is a choice.
Now it's true that somethings in life we cannot choose... Like say if you had complications when you were born. And for the record, people with physical or mental complications are harrased and picked on too. Speaking from personal experience here (at least from the physical side of things).
But sexual preference, yeah, you can definalty choose. It's not like you're born being gay or straight.
MikeReiner said:In a less angry approach (no blame though) I disagree.
ArrizX said:Safe to assume it varies per person?