Toby said:
That's because it is a choice.
Now it's true that somethings in life we cannot choose... Like say if you had complications when you were born. And for the record, people with physical or mental complications are harrased and picked on too. Speaking from personal experience here (at least from the physical side of things).
But sexual preference, yeah, you can definalty choose. It's not like you're born being gay or straight.
Just my two cents worth.
Could you care to explain how the fuck something like this works?
Nobody wants to be different, many people cannot handle being gay and also end up killing themselves. I spent 3-4 years of my life wishing I could be straight and like girls like everyone else. I tried downloading massive amounts of heterosexual and lesbian pornography to make myself straight, which did not work. After this, i began drugs and drinking to escape the reality. I also went to bed every night, thinking of how much easier it would be if i jumped off that bridge, put a bullet through my skull, or slit my wrists. I tried relationships with girls, but I had no sexual or emotional attraction to them.
I am not gay because I could not get laid, I have had plenty of opportunity's to engage in heterosexual sex with good looking girls as well.
Last but not least, I must point out their are some common physical differences among gay guys. First off, there are bone structure differences that appear in 90% of us, most of us emit a different pheromone which is different than male or female pheromones, 10% of us have a DNA pattern, as well as quite a few gay guys have far more estrogen.
If you could explain to me why the hell I would choose to be gay and go thru years of my life in depression, drinking, suicidal thoughts and drugs, feel free to explain this to me.