Ok, here is what I think you could go with:
Processor: AMD FX60 Toledo (as you metioned) $813.99 (@ newegg.com)
Mobo: Asus A8N32-SLI Deluxe (as you mentioned) $184.99
Graphics Card (s): You have the money, buy the new 7950GX2 $589.99
RAM: Kingston HyperX 2GB $286.62
Hard Drive: Western Digital Raptor X (10K RPM!!!) 150GB and Western Digital Caviar 250GB Total: $419.99
Optical Drives: Get a DVD Burner... ~$50
Case: IDK, you need choose one you like ~$100 : )
PSU: Again, find one that suits your needs, go for one with around 500 Watts +
Total: $2565.58
Ok, so that is what I think. All these parts can be found at newegg.com. This rig will be able to play ALL games at Max settings, or it should... This is just what I think. People will most likely disagree with me, but if I had 3500 to spend, this is how I would spend it. You could upgrade to the FX62 for an extra $385 if you want. Yeah, this system will last you a while! If you have money left over, go for a water cooling system too. That would be awesome.