If I was in in my mid-thirties that would make me 35 years younger than my wife, difficult!, we were married when I was 26, & Christina was 22, she was 20 when I met her, 20" waist & a great figure, ah, those were the days, going to the movies etc, one local cinema had "lovers" seats in the back row;- in pairs, no arms between! By the way, you must be quite young, we oldies can be quite surprising for our age!
Maurice