1, nobody cares if you are gay, when pople make sexual reference towards homosexuality, it is a part of normal conversation, it is meant in a joking way, certainly comments are directed at you, But your hypersensativity is leading you to be drawn into many unnecessary arguments.
For instance, when you sent me a PM entitled "assmonkey" what exatly was your connotation? were you calling me Gay? how do you know I am not? Should I have ben offended? (or should I have done what I did and realised you were too immature for anything else?)